In Australia, separated couples often face difficult decisions around parenting arrangements. One of the most important legal concepts in such matters is the child’s right to a “meaningful relationship” with both parents. Understanding how the Family Law Act 1975 defines this term — and how it affects court decisions — is essential for any parent navigating separation.

This article explains the legal meaning of “meaningful relationships,” how courts assess them, and what separated parents can do to strengthen their parenting position under Australian Family Law.

What Does ‘Meaningful Relationship’ Mean in Family Law?

Under the Family Law Act 1975, the best interests of the child are the paramount consideration when determining parenting orders. A key element in this assessment is the child’s right to have a meaningful relationship with both parents.

A “meaningful relationship” doesn’t necessarily mean equal time or perfect harmony between parent and child. It refers to a relationship where the child gains emotional support, security, love, and positive development through regular and beneficial interaction with a parent.

Importantly, the law recognises that a meaningful relationship can vary depending on the circumstances of the family. It does not demand day-to-day care or physical proximity alone; instead, it focuses on the emotional quality and stability of the bond between parent and child.

How Do Courts Assess ‘Meaningful Relationships’?

Courts assess meaningful relationships through several factors, outlined under Section 60CC of the Family Law Act 1975. These factors include:

The Benefit of the Child Having a Meaningful Relationship This is one of the two primary considerations. The court examines whether maintaining a relationship with both parents would positively contribute to the child’s emotional wellbeing and development.

The Need to Protect the Child From Harm The second primary consideration is the need to protect the child from physical or psychological harm, including exposure to family violence or abuse. Where safety is a concern, it can outweigh the child’s right to a meaningful relationship.

Other Relevant Factors The court also considers:

• The child’s wishes (depending on their maturity and understanding)
• The nature of the child’s relationship with each parent and other important people (e.g., grandparents)
• The capacity of each parent to provide for the child’s emotional, intellectual, and physical needs
• Practical considerations such as distance, parental availability, and financial stability

 Courts take a holistic view, weighing the child’s safety alongside the potential benefits of maintaining both parental relationships.

How Does This Impact Parenting Orders?

Parenting orders are legally binding decisions regarding:

• Who the child lives with
• How much time they spend with each parent
• Parental responsibility for major decisions

 Courts often aim to promote meaningful relationships by enabling frequent and positive interaction with both parents, provided it is safe to do so.

Shared Parental Responsibility vs Sole Parental Responsibility While the law starts with a presumption of equal shared parental responsibility, this does not mean equal time automatically. It relates to shared decision-making on major matters like schooling or healthcare. Courts only order shared time where it is practical and in the child’s best interests.

When Contact Is Restricted If a parent poses a risk to the child’s safety or emotional wellbeing, the court may:

• Limit contact to supervised visits
• Suspend contact altogether
• Impose specific conditions on communication

How Parents Can Strengthen Their Relationship With Their Child

Maintaining a meaningful relationship after separation takes consistent effort. Courts favour parents who demonstrate a willingness to encourage the child’s connection with the other parent (where safe) and who prioritise the child’s needs.

Practical Tips:

• Keep regular contact via calls, video chats, or in-person visits.
• Attend school events, extracurricular activities, and medical appointments.
• Create a stable, supportive home environment.
• Respect the child’s routines and developmental stage.
• Encourage positive talk about the other parent (if appropriate).

Mediation and Dispute Resolution When parents cannot agree on arrangements, mediation can help. Services such as Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) encourage parents to resolve disputes without court. Mediation often leads to more flexible and child-focused agreements.

When ‘Meaningful Relationship’ Conflicts with Child’s Safety

In cases involving family violence, abuse, or other risks, the child’s safety always comes first. Courts are required by law to prioritise protection over maintaining relationships that may cause harm.

Parents facing such complex situations should seek immediate legal advice. Specialist Family Law solicitors can help:

• Apply for urgent parenting orders
• Gather necessary evidence (medical records, police reports, etc.)
• Navigate court procedures and protections

Understanding how Australian Family Law defines “meaningful relationships” can help separated parents make informed decisions about their parenting arrangements.

While the law encourages children to have positive connections with both parents, their safety and wellbeing remain paramount.

If you are facing parenting issues or court proceedings, it’s crucial to get expert advice tailored to your circumstances.

Contact New South Lawyers today for a confidential consultation.